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Mel: Hello, darling.

Suzie : Hello, darling. How are you?

Mel: Shabby. Looks fabulous.

Suzie : Pretty cute. Pretty cute today?

Mel: No.

Suzie : So fine. Just good to be here.

Mel: It is.

Suzie : It's good to be alive. Does it feel good to be alive? Wow. Does it feel fun?

Mel: Well, the alternative isn't great.

Suzie : Exactly what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : This is good to be. Yeah, Feeling fresh.

Mel: Feeling fresh.

Suzie : Spring allergies are drifting away, so that feels good for me. But I don't know about anyone else. They got allergies. Seasonal allergies.

Mel: Me. This is a very exciting conversation. I do. Yeah, it's very boring.

Suzie : I'm just trying to say, you know, you never know what a birth of this person is going through and so you better just be kind.

Mel: I always say this to my children is it takes a lot more effort to be mean than it does to be nice. Like, you have to actually ******* think about it if you're gonna be mean.

Absolutely. A mean.

Anyway, this has nothing to do with what we're talking about. No, of course not.

Suzie : But I just wanted to start the pot out with being like, we're all friends here. Let's be kind.

Mel: Yeah, be kind.

Suzie : Anyways, what are we talking today? What are we talking about today, Mel?

Mel: We're talking about, like, when you're dating and relationships, obviously these are two different things. Where the boundaries with your privacy, like,

do you share your location, do you share passwords?

Should people be able to see texts and whatnot? What do you think about this?

Suzie : So interesting.

Mel: Susie, what do you think?

Suzie : I'm in the hot seat.

Mel: I know what I think. So what do you think?

Suzie : Okay, so I would say,

say if I Was in a relationship. This is just. This is like relationship. You're not dating anymore. This person.

You got past that. You're in an exclusive relationship.

I believe that.

Yes. You should be able to have your partner's password.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : In their computer.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : And in their phone. And it is a red flag if they do not give it to you.

Mel: Oh, yeah.

Suzie : I'm not saying they're a credit card pin.

I'm just saying they're,

you know, their phone. You have to do a call. You gotta. Your phone's not working or something. Yes. You gotta. You, you.

Mel: It's.

Suzie : It shouldn't be a secret.

Mel: You shouldn't have anything on there.

Suzie : You shouldn't be anything on there. You shouldn't be worried about all these things.

So that would be my thing for that.

But the problem is, is when you have that person's password and they've trusted.

Trusted you with that.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : And you are taking advantage of that by going through their phone without their consent.

Mel: Well, then you've got a problem.

Suzie : Yes.

Mel: I mean, there's no circumstance where that's okay. Like, I obviously know my husband's passwords, his phone and stuff like that.

Suzie : Yes.

Mel: But I don't sit there. Always left the room and check everything. Or he checked my. I mean, what would I be looking for?

I mean, if you're even looking for something,

that's your red flag.

Suzie : Yes.

Mel: It's a problem if he.

And I don't know every single. And he. Mine. And we all have bazillions of passwords these days. But I think the other thing is like sharing locations on your phone.

Like, obviously, I share my location.

Suzie : You do? With your husband and your kids.

Mel: Yeah, yeah, of course. Yeah.

So they know where you are or it's not really me. It's just a safety thing,

especially for children. It's just a safety thing for husband.

Uh,

yeah.

Suzie : I mean, see, I don't think I would do. I don't think I. I don't know if I'd feel comfortable with that until they are my husband.

Mel: Oh. Yeah. But I think that's a very good point, is you really shouldn't be doing that. Cause I, I've. I've heard or seen circumstances where people have asked to share location and the other person says no, and then they get all upset about it.

I think that you need to be. I mean, if you are actually in a relationship and they won't share your location,

that's probably a bit of a flag right there. But I think you, you shouldn't be dating and Doing that. That's absurd. I think you should be a little bit into it.

Like I. E. Exclusive and this is your person and all of that,

then okay, fine. But I don't think necessarily you have to do it.

Suzie : Yeah. And I think people should still have secrets.

Like, and not like weird deviant secrets from your partner, but like if you see someone's location at all times and you know where they are and I don't know, then you can be like,

how's your day, honey? And they're like, oh, fine. Like, you know, I just went to the grocery store and they're like, well, I actually saw the art gallery like at 2:30, so what the hell were you doing?

And it's like, it's okay. Like, it's.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : It's like, I mean, let a person have a life.

Mel: I think it also depends, like if you live with the person.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: Stuff like that.

Suzie : Totally.

Mel: It really depends to me how far you're into it. Obviously if you're married,

I think it's pretty normal. Yeah. That, you know, that you would do that.

I think if people don't want or not comfortable at a certain point, I don't think that's necessarily a bad thing. I do think it's. It is a flag. If somebody doesn't want to let you look at their phone or whatever, then obviously there's something going on.

Right.

But I still think people are weird. You, you hear these stories of particularly women going through their guy's phone. Yeah.

What are you looking for? Yeah. And why are you doing that? I mean, if you're going on there because you're making a call or you, you know,

some family member or some friend or somebody sent you a text and your,

your, your boyfriend, guy, whatever you want to call him says, oh yeah, look at. And he shows you and you look at it. All that kind of thing. That's different.

But why are you going through somebody's phone to find one without their permission? Without their permission. Yeah. That is obviously completely not cool.

Suzie : Yeah. Because.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : Like, the relationship should be built on trust.

Mel: Yeah. And who's got time for that?

Suzie : As soon as you're breaking that trust, you are done.

Mel: Oh, 100%. As soon as you're breaking that trust, you are done. Absolutely. You. It's.

Suzie : You're finished.

Mel: Almost irretrievable.

Suzie : Yes.

Mel: If the trust goes. Or if there is a question mark over trust before anything happens. Yeah. It's really problematic.

Suzie : And like the thing is like, okay, yes. You maybe like, let's say you're the woman and there is a possibility that you have, like, an inkling that your man is cheating on you.

Do you look through his phone?

If you can?

Mel: Hmm. I've never been in that situation. No, but if you were, I understand that. That. That it would kind of drive you crazy. But I think the problem is, is if you think to myself, I need to look at this phone, because he won't tell me.

I mean it.

Suzie : Well, because there are partners who, when they cheat, they are gaslighters.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : They're manipulators. So unless you see it for yourself.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : You won't believe it. You won't get out of the relationship.

Mel: Yeah. I think you're in a pretty bad place if that's happening.

Suzie : I mean. Yeah. That means, like, it.

Mel: So it's very hard for me to judge that. I think if, you know, I don't know, almost if you're even having those thoughts.

Suzie : I know, it's not great.

Mel: No,

not good at all. And then I think the other problem today is there are so many different ways of communicating with people. There's not just your texts, the social media.

There's all sorts of other platforms that you could be. And I'm not even talking about dating stuff. There's all sorts of WhatsApp, whatever it is, you know, all sorts of different ways.

Like, what are you gonna do? Check all of them?

Suzie : Exactly. And the way that you are able to, like. Like secretly message people nowadays.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : Is crazy.

Mel: And messages can disappear. Like, you can set things up so that it disappears after however much time. All that kind of thing.

Suzie : So it's like,

is looking through. Yeah, of course. If they're dumb and they're cheating on you openly on their text messages,

like. Yeah, of course. Like,

that's their fault.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : But it's like, if you have that weird inkling of, like, I need to check his phone all the time just because he might be cheating on me.

Mel: Yeah. I think you've answered your answer.

Suzie : Yeah. You cannot live your life like that.

Mel: No. 100%.

Suzie : And it's like, if you're asking for a location from your partner when you're not married, you haven't been dating that long, or you're not living together and you're just like, want to see what they're doing at all times.

Mel: Yeah. Why you don't.

Suzie : Why do you want to do. Why do you want to see what they're doing all times?

Mel: I mean, I don't even need to see that. I. Like I said I don't have this.

Like, where are you and what you're doing, it's more like a sort of,

I guess, a safety thing, or it's just to be honest, we set it up. We haven't even thought about it, to be honest.

Suzie : But if you are worried about your safety, like, as just like a woman who's, like, dating or in a short relationship, like,

they can give their location note of a best friend, it doesn't have to be to your man.

Mel: Yeah. I think also just if you are obsessed, generally,

whatever point you are in a relationship where somebody is and what they're doing,

I think you have to ask yourself, why.

Why do you. Why are you obsessed? Why do you care?

Why do you not trust them to be doing something that they should be doing? Right. Like,

why? And if you get into that, then people start lying,

you know? And I know situations where that's happened where, like,

men particularly, being very obsessive about,

you know, their wife, where she is and what she's doing, and then coming home and asking her, like a thousand questions, and you're just like,

why?

Like, have you built this whole scenario in your head? Which then means there's something else going on, right?

Suzie : Yeah, exactly.

Mel: But I mean, yeah, sharing locations, I think when you're just, like, dating,

is that really necessary? If you're not living together, you. You should be able to do whatever.

And I think that.

I think there are boundaries that, you know, it's your privacy. And if. If you trust somebody,

it's private. It's not private private, but it's just like, why do you need to see every single thing? Right?

Suzie : I mean, like, I don't want to share every single little part of me with someone else.

Maybe my, like, best friend, my best girlfriend.

Um,

but it's different with a guy. Like, I think a little bit of mystery is still sexy. And I'm not like, saying, like, I'm ******* around on him. So that's the sexy part.

It's more like the. I don't want him to know where I am all day so I can kind of, like, surprise him with something or, like.

Mel: Yeah, I don't know.

Suzie : Like, there's just other things. I'm like, I want to do things that I want to do and, like, not have someone else be judging my every move.

It's a very weird culture that we have because built nowadays that work, you don't. You shouldn't have to see what your partner is doing all day, or you shouldn't have to look through their phone to trust them.

The trust should just be there.

Mel: Yeah, it should be. Otherwise you're wasting your time. Quite frankly,

you're on a very bad path if you just innately don't trust and it goes straight away in your head to I need to check. Yeah, well then, you know, what's the point?

Suzie : I mean, I do remember and this is like when I was a kid, but like I remember my, I was having a sleepover at my friend's house and her mom came in to the room and I was like pretending I was sleeping in my sleepover and she was looking through her phone.

Mel: Why?

Suzie : While she was sleeping.

Mel: That's weird.

Suzie : And I was like, oh my God, your mom obviously doesn't trust you at all.

I, and this is like back when you had like flip flops, flip flop,

flip phones. So you didn't have a password on it.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : Right.

So your, whoever could have your phone could look your text and all this stuff.

But I'm like, obviously, like that's something totally different. Like do you look through, would you look through your daughter's phones? Yeah. No, but do you know their passwords?

Mel: No.

Suzie : Yeah, but you trust them?

Mel: Well, yeah. I mean my, my,

my way of dealing with that has always been,

you know, if you raise your kids to kind of understand social media, understand like digital ways of communicating, if you kind of give them the tools to kind of deal with that, it really,

it shouldn't be an issue.

It's never been an issue because I've kind of dealt with it as it's gone along, gone along. I mean, why on earth would I read their messages? That's none of my business.

Right.

And then there's. They need some privacy and what do I think they're doing, for God's sake? I mean, what on earth do I think they're doing and they're not. I mean they're doing whatever with their friends, but nothing like that.

Other teenagers aren't young, you know, 20 year olds are doing.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: And it's none of my business.

And I know that a lot of people will be like, you know, in my case, I pay for my kids phones. Right. They'll check, they'll say, well I pay for it, so I should check it.

But why.

Suzie : Right, like that's interesting.

Mel: What are you checking?

And I, I don't. But I've always been of the mind. Like I know a lot of parents who have restricted social media and restricted Internet and all that. I've never done that.

Right.

Because in my view, and this is personal to me,

I feel that that is the world we live in. We Live in a digital world.

Suzie : You did teach them how to deal.

Mel: With the tools that I gave them. The tools I gave them, and I talk to them all the time to understand that there's a lot of crazy **** on social media, there's a lot of crazy **** online to understand what's going on.

To take a lot of it with a grain of salt. Also communication with people, to be extremely careful.

I think most kids who are their Gen Z or what's the younger one?

Suzie : Alpha, Gen, Alpha something.

Mel: Gen Alpha. Yeah. That you have to just teach them to be really careful of your digital presence. So that's one thing I've always like, very careful.

Suzie : No nudes.

Mel: Well, yeah, that's. Yeah, don't do that if that's not your intention. Like, I mean,

you know, be careful because that's there forever.

Be careful how you comment on social media.

Be careful how you communicate with anybody, because that's there forever.

So in that sense.

And we've never had an issue, right,

because we talked about it. Yeah, but I guess,

yeah, I mean, I. We do live in this world where,

you know, we never had that before. You know, it was like, it was always sort of a bit like, oh, have you read that person's diary or something? Or they're, you know, whoever kept a diary now, there are just so many places you could have or be hiding or communicating or whatever.

And do you actually need to know all of that?

Like, even like.

Like, I use a lot of apps for work, like all sorts of platforms. There's so many ways you could be communicating with people. Right. What are you gonna do? Go through all of those?

Suzie : No, that's exhausting.

Mel: And I mean, like, you have to have the trust and also the person who each of you has to be not nervous that a message gonna come up and they're gonna.

What's that? Who's that? You know, that kind of thing you go to.

Otherwise kind of like, what's the point?

Suzie : I do think that's so crazy of like, you're texting someone and then whoever you're with, your partner is like, oh, who are you texting?

I mean, don't be like, nobody.

But then just be like, oh, like, I don't know.

Mel: Do you.

Suzie : Do you say exactly who you're texting, what they. What they said? Do you know what I mean? Or do you even ask the question as to who you're texting?

Mel: I think the only time, like, sometimes if the phone's like, God, who is that? Like, bing, bing, bing, bing, bing.

Suzie : Right?

Mel: And Sometimes that's my phone. Sometimes that's my husband's phone. But it's not. It's always work. It's always a work thing.

And it's just like, oh, my God, ping, ping, ping. And it keeps going.

And then you're like, oh, it's this or it's that.

Suzie : Like, if they're just texting someone regularly. You're not like, who are you texting?

Mel: No, not really. I mean, why do I care?

Suzie : Right? Exactly.

Mel: And I know it's one of however many people. It's not like a big handful of people,

right?

Yeah.

But I think some people get very wound up about it,

and it is generally women, isn't it, to men? They're just. Just not trustful. They're not. They think. They just imagine all these scenarios.

And I think you have to. You have to not do that. Otherwise, why are you dating? Why are you. I'm not telling you that that person isn't doing something distressful and that may happen, but I don't think you can kind of set out with that thought, can you?

Suzie : Yeah, I know it's really hard because, like,

it is. Like,

if I were. If I was not to share my location with the guy I'm dating, would he be like, well, why not?

Right. And then is that my red flag to him? But is that also a red flag for me?

Mel: I think.

Suzie : You know what I mean, to me.

Mel: The red flag is if he does that really early on. Like, that's really bizarre.

Suzie : I'd be like, yeah, no, I'm sorry.

Mel: Strange.

I think if you're a little ways in. I mean, I don't know. Is there a. Like, okay, we're a year. We've been dating for a year.

Do you. Yeah.

Suzie : When do you get to know each other's passwords?

Mel: Yeah, when it. When is that?

Suzie : Yeah. I don't know.

Mel: I have no idea. I think it should actually just be a natural thing. Yeah. It should be. Like, I mean, maybe you just don't know their password. I know you actually need to use the phone because your phone's dead or whatever.

Suzie : And when they change their password.

Mel: Yeah. Yeah.

Suzie : Right.

Mel: That was. Would that be weird?

Suzie : Yes. Like.

Well, like. Right. Like when you're changing your password for whatever reason,

and then they're like, oh, I couldn't get into your phone. And then they're like, well, why were you trying to get into my phone?

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : That sounds like a bad relationship.

Mel: That is not good at all. No,

but, yeah, I mean, it's interesting. What are the boundaries and I personally don't think you should have a sort of thing. Oh, yeah, okay. We're at the six month mark.

I should be asking share my location.

Imagine. Is that a thing?

Suzie : I don't really hope not, to be honest. I think it's just like whatever feels right for you. If you want to have. If you want your location,

this is the thing. You can't make someone else do something else. Like, do something.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : So if I'm like, oh, Mel, I want to share my location with you because I want to feel safe and I feel safe that you're going to see it, or I want you to know my password just case something happens or something like that.

Here's my phone password,

here's my computer password.

You know, feel free to use it if you need, but like, whatever. And that would make someone feel comforted and that would make me not check your phone.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : If I, like, was being like weird about something.

But I think that's just like a nice thing to say and that should happen naturally, like you're saying.

But certain period of time, if the person's like, closed off, as in, like, no, I'm not going to share my password with you. That's crazy.

Mel: Well, I think, I think exactly. And very early on, I think if somebody's texting and you're sort of starting to date and somebody, let's say, gets a lot of texts and, and they're very sort of, you know, turn the phone away or very secretive, then obviously there's something going on.

And I think that tells you everything, doesn't it?

Suzie : It's very hard because men do this. Men look at a lot of sexy Instagram posts.

Mel: Yes.

Suzie : The men's algorithms on Instagram and I'm sure on TikTok and maybe anything else is a lot of hot, sexy women. Because if you look at one thing, as we know,

that's all that comes up and it's all on your Explore page. And pretty much all in my Explorer floor page is hot women too. Because I like to look at hot women.

Hairstyles and good food and Pomeranian puppies.

Mel: Yeah, I have a lot of Pomeranian puppies, which I send you. But yeah, generally beauty stuff. Yeah, there's no men on it.

Suzie : No, there's no men on mine either.

Mel: No interest to me whatsoever.

Suzie : But see, that's the thing. So it's like if you're going on your man's pay, if you're wearing your man Instagram.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : Like on his personal phone and you see what's on his Explore feed.

It's what he's following. It's what it. It's like. And is. That's also the thing? Like, is that mean he's cheating on you because he's liking all these girls posts?

Mel: Yeah, let me admit that's the thing.

Suzie : Because he's looking at it constantly.

Mel: Can of worms.

Suzie : It is weird. I remember when I was dating my ex boyfriend and this, we had been dating for quite a while at this point, and he was still following a bunch of like,

like uber sexy women. Like, these are like, you know, onlyfans girls kind of thing. And it's as much as, like, I have very much self confidence.

I'm like, if you are looking at these women all day long and then you expect to come home to me and like, feel,

I don't know, like, like in a sexy way, like I should be. Do you know what I mean? Like, it's like, it gives me this whole,

like, I'm not good enough kind of thing. Cause I've been looking at these women all day, so I've been kind of like hard for these women all day. And then I'm coming home to you and we doing all the mundane things.

Mel: Right, Right.

Suzie : So it's like you're.

You're exploring your sexuality all day long with these women online and then you're coming home to me and like, I'm hot, but I'm like, not an uber sexy Instagram girl.

Mel: Right.

Suzie : So it does make you feel some type of way. So do you ask your partner to unfollow people that you're uncomfortable with?

Mel: That's a tricky one, isn't it? Yeah, I think,

I think,

I think it's really obsessive.

I mean, and then how do you know,

how do you know who he's following unless you look at his phone?

Suzie : Well, yeah, but you can see it. And you can also see who they're following. No, you can look at it of their. On your phone, on to them.

Mel: Oh, that's true. Yeah.

Suzie : So it's not a secret who they're following.

Mel: That's true. I think if they're following a lot.

Suzie : Of them, it's also just like, that's so gross. And like, that's a red flag.

Mel: It is. Yeah. If you're dealing with this, I don't think it's at all weird that men would see a woman and look at and go, ooh, and then click on it and then that's all that comes up.

I don't think that's weird at all. I think if you see on your boyfriend, husband, partner, whatever. That he's following tons of these women.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: Or that he's commenting on a lot of women.

Suzie : Oh, my God. The commenting or the message, like the dm.

Mel: That's a little strange. That's a little concerning, quite frankly.

Suzie : Yeah.

It's more just like the seeing it all day long and you are like, not. No man was supposed to see this many hot women in their entire lives. No, I mean every day, all day.

Mel: It can't be easy. I give it to them.

Suzie : And also women we're not meant to see. All these hot men we could be with buying their girlfriends Chanel and like taking them on these trips and like.

Mel: Totally fake.

Suzie : It's totally fake.

Mel: No, it's. It's not helpful.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: And it is also part of why everyone has these crazy expectations and hang up. Because they hang ups. Yeah. Because they see all this garbage that is not real and that is curated and then they.

I don't know. Why do we not understand? It's not real.

It's. I. I don't know, like even like men looking at like, sort of AI generated stuff and like.

Suzie : Oh, my God. Yeah. It's getting bad.

Mel: Yeah. It's getting very bad.

Very bad. And it's not good for women in the sense that these women are so perfect that.

And they're never going to be like that. It's impossible.

Yeah. I mean,

I think you should have to use your common sense.

Suzie : Yes. Common sense would be good nowadays, wouldn't it?

Mel: It could. And common sense really is very much lacking in the world.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: Like, just use your common sense. Chill out. Use your common sense.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: It's tough.

Suzie : It's tougher than it seems because you. There's so many more opportunities for cheating.

Mel: Yes.

Suzie : Nowadays that men can cheat and women can cheat and you might never find out.

Mel: Yeah. Because messages disappear. Voicemails disappear.

Suzie : Exactly.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : But then there's also a lot of ways where you can find out a lot easier.

Mel: Get cool.

Suzie : Because let's say you got a family icloud.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : And you're having all these sexy photos that you're receiving or you're sending out.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : On the family computer that you didn't realize.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : What do you think is gonna happen?

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : Men, check yourselves.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : Ladies, check yourselves.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : These nudes are not that secret.

Mel: No, not at all. And some of these apps, like WhatsApp, if people send messages, it can sort of immediately download to your.

Suzie : It does. Yeah.

Mel: I mean, you have to change it. Yeah. But. And a lot of people don't Realize that. Yeah, yeah. Which is hilarious. But we're trying.

Suzie : We're not trying to give people, cheaters the advice, though.

Mel: Trying to give anybody.

I just think,

you know, I guess we want to be so suspicious of each other.

And I think if you are in a relationship with somebody and you're already suspicious, that's not healthy. That's not good.

Suzie : Yeah.

Mel: And is something, I guess, you have to ask yourself, is there something that's happened that makes you automatically trigger suspicion? Is it the person or is it just your history?

Suzie : Yeah, exactly.

Mel: So maybe you have to ask yourself that question and you have to say,

and maybe you should discuss that, you know, that I have a problem because somebody cheated on me or whatever, so I'm anxious or whatever. So the person knows you're not like a nutcase.

Like you're just a little anxious about somebody cheating on you. But I just think you really do have to use your common sense. And I just think it uses up a huge amount of energy.

I mean, like, if you worry like about where your partner is all the time, like in a work situation or they're going out with friends, I mean, I know friends of mine where their husbands don't really like it when they go out with their friends and they check up on them.

And I think it's really strange. And I just think that uses up a lot of energy. What's the problem?

Why can you not go out and he go out? Why can't you have separate interests? Why can't you even go on separate trips? I mean, what is the problem?

And being so suspicious and so kind of imagining all these scenarios,

that's like, gotta eat up a lot of, like, negative energy. No. Yeah. Like, what's the point?

Suzie : When I have a man, like when I'm dating someone, I love when they have. When they go out with their boys.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : I love it. I'm like, go with your boys. Go enjoy that time that obviously, like, you guys have nothing and everything to talk about.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : Right. You guys are going to go watch the sports, you're going to go eat some wings and have some beers, whatever boys do.

And maybe you're going to talk to some girls.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : I really don't care. No, it's because I trust you.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie : And unless you're showing me that I can't trust you, I'm going to trust you.

Mel: I think you've nailed it.

Suzie : Just don't break my trust.

Mel: That's it.

Suzie : That's it.

Mel: You've nailed it.

Suzie : Thanks, babes.

Mel: Very good.

Suzie : If you guys have had some bad cheating experiences or any kind of phone experiences.

Maybe your partner gave out his password and he shouldn't have.

We'd love to hear from you.

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We'll catch you there.

Mel: We will. Until next time.

Suzie : Love ya.

Mel: Bye.

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