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Hey, babes.

Mel: Hello, darling. Hello, babes. How you doing?

Suzie: Good. It's summer. I'm having a good time.

Mel: It is very hot.

Suzie: It feels so good to be hot though. If we just like wait for this all year and it feels amazing to just be sweaty.

Mel: Yeah. Well, it's the weird thing about Canada, isn't it? It's like so cold and then so hot.

Suzie: Yeah.

Mel: Which people don't understand. But anyway, it's very nice.

Suzie: I much rather this than below freezing. Like freezing, freezing, freezing temperatures.

Mel: Oh, yeah, yeah. We'll take the sun.

Suzie: I will take that. I like any day I spent some time outside.

Mel: Um.

Suzie: Cause I was like, oh, I'm just like. It's literally. It feels like 45 or it did for a bit.

Mel: Second oven.

Suzie: Yeah. And I was like, I'm gonna spend the time. Cause I have this little rooftop patio. And I was like, I'm gonna spend a little time like tanning before I get here.

And I literally probably spent 10 minutes outside before I was dripping.

It was a little disgusting but kind of hot if you're into that.

We kind of a fun little pod.

Mel: We have, haven't we, Susie?

Suzie: We have a fun little pod. I had an experience over the weekend and I thought I would share it with all of my. Our lovely list here because I thought everyone would be kind of intrigued.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie: And I was almost gonna not do it because I was like, you know, this isn't some. This is my first one.

Mel: Yes.

Suzie: And. But I was like, I gotta do it for the plot. Gotta do it for the pod. Okay, so here's the go, guys. This is for you.

Mel: Okay.

Suzie: So this weekend I had my first orgy.

My first real orgy. Because if. If our new Listeners don't know. I was on the Boys for their orgy episode. It was called Hero Gasm.

And so I have been in,

you know, acting professional roles as an orgy person,

and.

But I never experienced myself.

Mel: Not in real life.

Suzie: Not in real life, let me tell you. It's actually quite similar.

Mel: Right.

Suzie: So they do a great job on tv. Let you know what's actually going on and how it actually would work.

Mel: Okay.

Suzie: So that's just a little tidbit for me.

Mel: Okay. Right.

Suzie: So this.

The only reason I got invited to this.

I'm not that cool.

Is because my neighbor,

who has these.

What they. I know.

Okay. Just my nice neighbor. We'll call him, like, Mr. N,

because we won't say real names on here. But Mr. N, my neighbor invited me because he has them all the time. He's also an actor.

And so that we've gotten really close because we help each other with auditions and such.

So he was like, susie, like, you should really come. Like, it's gonna be so much fun. Like,

you know, like, you don't even have to do anything. You just kind of have a drink, like, feel the vibe, and, like, if you don't want to do anything, like, you don't have to.

Like, no pressure.

And I was always like. And I was actually always busy. Like, for the last few times that he's hosted these orgies,

I was actually busy. And I was like, I can't come.

But this one, I was like, you know what? I'm not doing anything.

I might as well just go see what's going on.

If anything, it's a new episode for the pod.

Let's just. Let's feel it out.

So for anyone who has not been.

Mel: To an orgy, which is pretty much everyone, I'm gonna.

Suzie: I'm gonna tell you my experience. Okay.

Mel: Please do. Please do.

Suzie: So I.

So before it even happens, he sends out a formal invite, which I thought that was the funniest part.

A literal formal invite so you can see who's coming.

Not that everyone has a photo with their name, but you can kind of see you kind of get a. Get a handle on who will be there.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie: And one of the funniest parts about it was, like, the names who were coming.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie: Most of them, you wouldn't know if they were a boy or girl.

Mel: Right, Right.

Suzie: Like, you know, it would be, like, a tailor. Could that be a man or a woman? We don't know.

There. There's. There was a literal person there named Tiger.

Is that. Is that a man? Or a woman we don't know.

So there's a few on there. I was like, I don't even know what I'm getting myself into.

So he was like, come in lingerie. Because, you know, like, you don't want to come in jeans. Everyone's gonna be in lingerie or they're gonna be. Yeah. You know what I mean?

Like, you don't want to be the only one dressed to a naked party.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie: It's just you want to be with the vibe. You want to feel natural with the vibe. You want to be with the vibe, and you want to feel sexy too.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie: So I was like, I'm gonna go all out, you know, I'm gonna make sure that I'm wearing, like, my cute little, like,

you know, stockings with my little garter and my lingerie, because I'm like, if. If I'm doing this, I'm gonna do it right.

Mel: You're gonna go full.

Suzie: I'm gonna go full out to the full extent.

Um,

so I show up,

and I show up a little late. The orgy is from seven to two around.

And I was like, seven's a little early for me. You know, I'm not going over there for dinner and, like, gonna go a long time.

Mel: It's a long time.

Suzie: It's a long time for an orgy.

So I had been over here for dinner earlier with you and your lovely husband,

and we had a fun time. And I had a few glass of wine, which was great.

And so I got there around 10.

Mel: Yes.

Suzie: And everyone was kind of already doing stuff and in the moment.

And so I come down, literally just a floor down from me in my little outdoor coat because I'm trying to cover my lingerie and slippers.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie: And I come in. I, like, just not quietly. I'm like, hello. And I open the door, and it's, like, dark.

It's like,

very dark. I can't really see what's going on. Oh, hey, Come in, come in. So I come in. Mr. N is in,

like, boxers and, like, or briefs or whatever, and, like, a robe. And I'm like, okay, hey. Hey, Mr. N. And right around the corner comes this guy,

shirt **** out.

Mel: Full aged out there.

Suzie: And I'm like, oh, hello. And so I'm like, okay. Immediately you get invited to the party, obviously.

Mel: Right.

Suzie: There's no one wasting any time.

But I'm like, hello. And he's like, oh, hello.

You know, my first time meeting all these people,

I also knew Mr. N's girlfriend.

We'll call her Ashley.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie: And Ashley and I are like talking and chatting and she's very, very sweet.

And so she's like, hey, like, how are you? Like, she like gets me a drink and like tries to get me comfortable. And like we're in the kitchen and at this point it's kind of.

Because everyone's in the middle of stuff.

It's a little bit of sensory overload.

Mel: I can only imagine.

Suzie: It's. It's because you're like, you're. People are literally ******* on.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie: Everywhere you're looking or they're like making out or there's like a lot of things happening. It's also dark and you're like, what am I doing here?

So I come in, me and Ashley are chatting and then so you can see like we're in the kitchen. You can see like in the living room. I don't know where Mr.

And put his furniture, but all everywhere you can see is like a blow up mattress.

Mel: Right.

Suzie: And sheets and pillows. So it's like cozy, comfy, but like, you know, everyone is kind of like. There's a pair of girls, like chatting, making out like in the like first corner.

And then there's like a group of four,

you know, sucking ****, getting fud. Like, like making out in the next corner. And then there's someone else on this mattress, you know, like doing some other stuff. And then there's a few people outside on the balcony.

And I'm like, okay. Like, I don't really know where my place is yet. Right.

Mel: So yeah, I can imagine that's confusing.

Suzie: It is a little confusing. So Ashley and I,

we, from our little drinks, we,

we kind of go over and she, she like introduces me to the girls who are making out first.

So like, they're very sweet. So they are Mr. N's lovers. Ashley's the girlfriend.

So obviously everyone is consensual in this.

Mel: Okay, got it.

Suzie: So she's like, oh, hey, this is Grace and Tiger, who is a woman. Hello.

Mel: Well, Tiger is the woman. Okay.

Suzie: And so I was like, oh, hey. Like, you know, I'm neighbor Susie.

How's it going?

And they're very sweet, they're very nice,

everyone's very kind.

And,

and I was like, at this point, I'm either going to get into this or I'm gonna leave, you know.

And you have to kind of get yourself in the mood. You kind of can't wait for someone else to turn you on because also no one knows your level of consent.

Right. So like, you have to be like the one to Be like, okay. Like, I'm okay with making out. And they're obviously already okay with all this, right? So, like, you kind of, as the new person, come in there and you're like, okay,

just gonna start.

Start somewhere nice. So let's start somewhere where I know, right? So. So Ashley and I start making out.

Mel: Right?

Suzie: Very nice. She's got a great pair of ****. Hello. Excellent, excellent, excellent pair of ****.

And so we start making out. We start playing a little bit,

and the two girls in the corner kind of join us a little bit. And then one trots off to do something else with someone else. I don't know where she went.

And me and Ashley and Tagger are kind of playing.

And then Ashley's like, I really need to eat you out.

And I'm like, okay.

She's like, is that okay? And I was like, yeah, that's okay. Like, I don't mind. And also, like, I'm just there to play with the women.

Mel: Yes.

Suzie: I don't really want to play with men as much. Like,

I. It's. It's in my mind, it's a little bit safer.

Like, they're a little bit, you know, easier or more respectful in a way. Like, in my mind, I'm like, these guys are very respectful anyways. But just, like, in my mind, I'm like, I'm just gonna hear to play with the girls.

Like, it'll be fun. It'll be fresh. Like, and they're. They're very sweet. And, you know, I never get to make out with girls as much I get to make it with dies.

Mel: You say fresh?

Suzie: A little fresh.

Mel: A little fresh.

Suzie: A little fresh.

Mel: Women. Yeah. So men is more like. Like, not like women is more playful or. I think it's just more, like, gross or less.

Suzie: Just feels a little less gross to me. Not that any of these guys were gross, because all the women were beautiful and the guys were, like, sexy. It's not like it was, like anyone was, like, grosser than the other.

It was more just like,

the male thing. It was just the men thing. Like, you just don't know,

you know? Like, these dicks have been in people's mouths and people's already.

Mel: Well, I would assume.

Suzie: So I'm just like, I don't want to play with a **** right now. Like, I'm here to play with the girls.

Mel: Okay, Got it.

Suzie: Because it's more comfortable. It's a little exciting.

Mel: Comprehending.

Suzie: Yes.

Mel: Okay.

Suzie: So as she starts eating me out, right? It's excellent, excellent, excellent. She knows what she's doing.

Mel: She knows that I'm pleased, which is excellent. Yeah.

Suzie: My little problem here.

Mel: Yes.

Suzie: And look, this is just. This was just not for me, okay.

Mel: Okay. I mean, this in itself is a shocking statement that, like, for you, this is too much like you. Finally, it's all a bit too much.

Suzie: It was just. Okay, so while.

So we're on and like, everyone's kind of on the same mattress, right? Because there's not that much room, right? You're in. You're in a condo. You're in a loft.

So while. While Ashley's eating me out and I'm having a great time enjoying myself and this couple who are very nice, but they come beside me.

Mel: Very nice.

Suzie: They're very nice, but they are beside me now, and the girl has a very large strap on and she is ******* her boyfriend with it.

Mel: Great.

Suzie: Right beside me.

Mel: Okay?

Suzie: And like, literally, like. Like I'm here and they're right here because there's not. They're not. There's not that much room.

Mel: I mean, that is like.

Suzie: It's. It's right there and it's, you know, like,

he, you know, he's like, oh, yeah,

me with that big.

And I'm like, yeah, this is like. Yeah, this is a lot. Like, I don't like. I.

The men who I like to hook up with are like, I like straight guys.

Like, if I'm going to go with a guy, like, when he's straight, I like, you know, when he, like, loves women.

Like, I'm not really into men who like to be pegged. Just. Just me, just my preference.

Mel: I mean, that's.

Suzie: We all have preferences.

Mel: We all have preferences.

Suzie: It's just not for me.

Mel: And that's on your dating profile, is it?

Suzie: And I should put it on my dating. Don't bring no pegging. Yeah.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie: Okay, so it's on my field dating profile. No.

Mel: Okay.

Suzie: So while ******** me out, he is getting in the ***** with the *****. She's ******* him with the strap on.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie: So it's a bit much,

but Ashley is doing an excellent job, right?

And so she gives me a lovely little orgasm,

which was fabulous.

And so I'm having a great time. I'm feeling great now.

I'm obviously trying to, like, block these two out of my eyesight.

And so this other cutie woman who comes from the other corner because she was just playing with, like, her boyfriend and like, these other kind of girls, she comes over and we start making out.

And now Ashley and I and this other cute girl, which I forget her name, which I feel so bad about.

Mel: Okay.

Suzie: Yeah, she. So we're all kind of playing with each other and then the new girl's boyfriend comes over.

Mel: Yep.

Suzie: And he is the one with the shirt on **** out.

Mel: Shirt on **** out.

Suzie: That I met the first time.

Mel: Got it. Yeah.

Suzie: So he seems very nice.

Mel: Yep, sure. He's very nice.

Suzie: He's a very nice guy. And he comes over and he's like, I'm playing with her a little bit. Like, he's also playing with her because, like, I'm not doing anything with **** right now.

And ****. There's no **** action in me.

And so he's with her and I'm like, we're like making out. I'm like, she's wearing this really cute lingerie thing. So we're like playing a little bit. And Ashley's still there, kind of like, you know, kissing me down there.

And that was really nice.

Mel: Kissing me down there.

Suzie: Yeah. You know, kissing my little ***** still, which is very nice. And so the mattress at this point has gotten a little low.

Mel: Yes.

Suzie: Okay. And it's taken. It's taken quite a beating.

Mel: Yeah. So. So.

Suzie: And the strap on couple is now behind me.

Mel: Oh, great.

Suzie: Which is fine.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie: But the strap on couple is behind me.

Mel: Y.

Suzie: And so the boyfriend and the new girl are like, do you want to come upstairs to the bed where this guy can actually.

Where the guy can kind of join in a better way because the mattress is a little low. And I'm like, yes, please. Anything to kind of move me away from the strap on situation.

So we go upstairs and it's in like, much more like kind of quiet, intimate environment, which is really nice. And me and her are like, playing a little bit. Like we are like making out and just like enjoying.

And he is like, can I finger you? And I'm like, yes, you can. Because now I'm like turned on because I'm kind of out of the environment. I'm like, into something more intimate.

And she's really cute. And, like, he's fine, you know.

No, he's very cute.

And so he, like, starts fingering me. And like, he's also like ******* her.

And like, we're making out. Like, me and her making out. And it was really great. And then he, like, stopped finger me and he, like,

is like. And so, like, I kind of going down on her a little bit.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie: And. And then I'm like, can you keep fingering me? Like, that felt really good.

Mel: And.

Suzie: And they're like, yeah. And so he Keeps bringing me and I come again.

Mel: Wow.

Suzie: So it was all worth it.

Mel: Well, that's good.

Suzie: You know, you're not going to an orgy not to come. Let me tell you that much.

Mel: It seems a little pointless.

Suzie: It's a little bit pointless. I mean, you know, coming. I know people are like, you know, coming is not the end be all. End all of sex.

Mel: Of course, I think it pretty much is in these situations, but you really.

Suzie: Really hope it's going to happen. And I didn't even expect to do it because I was like, I'm. This is a new environment.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie: I'm like worried about whatever thing, whatever, what else is going on.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie: And yeah, it just felt. It just felt right in that moment. It felt great. So, okay,

so then after that kind of situation, so we're kind of still playing.

Mel: He.

Suzie: He and her are still playing a little bit. And you know, like, he's like ******* her and I'm like, you know, making out with her a little bit still because, like, I'm good,

you know. But like, at this point for me, yeah, it's been like two hours now at this point for me,

my.

And men will know exactly what I'm talking about. But the post come clarity comes out.

Mel: Right.

Suzie: And men, yes, women can get post come clarity.

Mel: Right.

Suzie: And I think men don't understand that because they're like, oh, all women want to do is cuddle after. And like, you know, and no,

we also feel the need.

Mel: You're done.

Suzie: To get out. To be done. To be like, okay, this is it for me. If I stay any longer, like, I'm gonna be just out of it, you know?

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie: So I'm like, okay, I'm gonna go downstairs. And they're still upstairs. And then I'm like, I have to get out of the situation in the nicest way possible.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie: And so I say goodbye to everyone.

Like, goodbye, man. But goodbye, ashley, and goodbye, Mr. N. And thank you all for,

you know, inviting neighbor Susie to be a part of this play party and orgy and goodbye and goodbye. And so I just, right at the little door, put my jacket on, went out the door.

And let me tell you, it was a great experience.

Mel: I mean, I have so many questions, I don't even know where to start it. So. It was a great experience.

Suzie: It was a great experience. Like, I think the biggest thing was, like, I'm worried that people are. I'm not gonna be attracted to anyone.

Mel: Yes.

Suzie: Cause I think for women, like, we have to feel like we're in that attractiveness with someone. We have to feel the energy with someone. So I was worried that wasn't gonna happen.

I was also worried that, like,

you know, I would just feel too awkward or like, you know, people aren't inviting or, you know, really, like, how do you start this?

Mel: Don't look at me.

Suzie: So. Yeah, so it's, it's. It's a lot. So it, it just. Yeah, just felt right. It was nice.

Mel: So is this something you would want to do again?

Suzie: I would definitely have.

Yeah, I would definitely have another orgy again. I think it was definitely a fun experience with these people because they were all very sweet and, like, open.

I think it would be fun to go to a sex party next. Like, I think that's like my next journey in like the orgy realm and.

Mel: Like a club or something.

Suzie: In like a sex club. Yeah. Because Toronto does have a few.

Mel: Yeah. I mean, that's quite a different thing. I would think it is.

Suzie: And I think for those things, either you go with another girl that you're comfortable with, or you go with a guy who you're comfortable with and you want to kind of like, hang out and like, show off and like, do your thing.

Mel: Yeah. I mean, for me, I would think, like, in my questions, of which there are many, is surely if you go to a party like this, like your friends running it.

Suzie: Yes.

Mel: And he knows all the people.

Suzie: Yeah.

Mel: There's a much higher level of feeling safe.

Suzie: Oh, for sure.

Mel: Whereas that would be like, you go to one of these clubs. Like,

like, how. How do you know? What do you do? How do you,

you know? Yeah, I mean, I. I have no idea.

Suzie: Yeah,

I mean,

yes and no. I feel like, like. And I was noticing that, like, you know,

the men who aren't sleep with their. Who aren't like, having sex with their partners are using condoms and you could see that everywhere. And there's like lube everywhere and stuff.

So, like,

there is that element of safety within something like, that's like tight knit like this. Like, you can see that everyone's using a condom and like, being safe or it's like as safe as they are, you know, able to as with consent, obviously.

So. And the fact that, like, you know, I wasn't playing with any guys besides that one guy who did finger me and like, we did make out a little bit.

It wasn't like,

oh, like, come on, like, let me **** you or something like that. Like, I didn't feel like any type of shame when I was like,

rejecting a guy.

Mel: Right.

Suzie: And the girls were like, Very fun.

So. And they were very open, which was, like, a very fun environment.

And me and Mr. N obviously, like, didn't hook up because we're friends.

Not that I wouldn't, but I think it was just, like. It was just a nice experience to just go in there and, like, know that, like, I can just play with the girls and, like, have a lot of fun with them.

But with the. With a sex club, I don't know.

I have never been. I have no idea if that's the case or not. Where you can just kind of go into the sex club and then, like,

everyone's kind of, like, eyeing you and, like, trying to, like, get with you or, like, what the creep level is.

Mel: Well, that's what I was gonna say. And just the sort of safety level. Like, you literally have no idea who these people are.

Suzie: Right.

Mel: Whereas you go into this situation, I assume they're his friends or he's connected to them somehow. Yeah, it's a bit more. It's like a party with a little bit more going on.

Suzie: Right.

Mel: Rather than, like,

you know, a completely alien environment. I mean.

Yeah,

I mean, I have no idea. I mean, to me, I can't even understand how you can get through the door, to be honest. Like, get through the.

Suzie: Right.

Mel: I mean, get through the, like, out, like, weird, overwhelming experience of being with all these bodies everywhere. I just couldn't. I couldn't even imagine it.

Suzie: I mean,

it's a lot. It's a lot because you're. You're literally, like. I was sitting. I was, like, sitting there for, like, 15, 20 minutes, like, in the kitchen, just kind of, like, not even able to, like, speak really.

Like, not even be able to, like, really chat because I'm literally, like, there is so much going on, and, like, I don't know.

I don't know where to look, and I don't know who to talk to. And, like, obviously, like, Ashley was there, like, to kind of, like, walk me through it and, like, be okay.

Which I think is what I would recommend to any kind of girl who, like, wants to go to an orgy or even. Obviously guy. But, like, make sure you have.

Whoever you're going with is cool and a friend more than, like, a. Just a lover or something like that. Because you. You are gonna experience things you've never experienced before if this is your first one.

And you have to be able to laugh, because if you not, like.

Like, she. She had told me, like, Ashley had told me. She was like, no, my first orgy. Because she's not part of this community before she met him.

Mel: Okay.

Suzie: So she was like my first orgy.

I. All I did was laugh and like I couldn't take it seriously. So like, you have to like be with someone who it's like, it's okay to like make fun of it and like laugh and like not make anyone feel bad about like laughing, but just like, oh my God,

what am I watching right now? Like, what am I doing?

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie: Because it is ridiculous.

Mel: Yeah, it's ridiculous. I would. Yeah, I would think so. I mean, so she. Is she get into it because of who she's with?

Suzie: For sure.

Mel: But now she's and likes it.

Suzie: Yeah. So she, her specifically. She only plays with girls. So she doesn't play with other guys? She doesn't want to.

Mel: Yes.

Suzie: So her and nit and Mr. N just play with each other obviously. And,

and they have a great relationship doing that. And like she's totally okay with him having other lovers on the side, obviously.

Whether that's men or women.

Yeah. She's. She also said to me that night she was like, I really want to. And I don't think anyone did, but she was like, I really want to see a guy or I really want to see Mr.

N suck a **** because I've never seen that and I wonder how I feel about it.

So she's like very open to the fact of like I want to see like how. What my boundaries are and like feel it out after.

Mel: Wow. Okay. So I mean, this is like people with, you know, your boundaries even you are like way.

Suzie: Yeah.

Mel: Beyond anybody's like spiritual sphere of anything.

Suzie: Yeah.

Mel: Right. You can be open minded.

Suzie: Yes.

Mel: Like I would say I'm fairly open minded person. I'm listening to you.

Suzie: Absolutely.

Mel: But just even the idea.

Suzie: Yeah.

Mel: Of doing this.

Suzie: Yeah.

Mel: Literally is like, I mean I. I'm more likely to go to Mars in a rocket ship than do this.

Suzie: I can see you. Why could I see you at a sex club though? Male.

Well, I could see you in some like La Perla sexy lingerie at a sex club with your husband and just like not like watching in a weird way, but just like observing in a scientific way of just being like, wow,

this is how it's gonna go.

Mel: Yeah. I mean, yeah. I don't know. I'm speechless. Really.

Suzie: Oh my God. No, trust me, this is me 20 minutes into the orgy.

Mel: Well, that's what I'm interested about. That like for you, this is a lot.

But I guess it's like anything,

you know, you have to kind of, I guess do Things a few times. And if you like it. And I mean, I.

This is where the judgment thing comes in,

is I think that, you know, this is the thing about sex and relationships is it's. Everyone should do what they want to do. Right. Their thing,

it's not for me.

And, you know, the way I live my life is not for you. That is not relevant. That doesn't matter. That doesn't mean I get the right to say to you,

like, what, that's crazy or that's gross or whatever. Or you get to say to me, that's boring, or whatever it is. Absolutely everyone should be entitled to their thang, as it were.

I don't know why I had to say it in that accent.

But the other thing is,

I also think.

I think the vibe I get from you just generally is that you want to experience things,

which in many ways is a great thing. Like, your mind is not closed to experiences.

So you're not saying you're gonna like it or you're gonna. Not. Not necessarily this particular orgies or whatever that.

Can't believe I've just said that. But you wanna try. You're open to the possibility of things, so you're open to trying things.

You're open to experiences and all experiences in life. It doesn't really matter what they are, whether they're sex, whether they're anything.

You may like them and you may not, but if you don't try it, you don't know. Yeah. I think that's an interesting kind of mindset for me. Yeah.

Suzie: Well, I'm. I'm very. I believe that everyone should push their own boundaries.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie: And whether that's with sex or with work or with love or with anything.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie: I think it's so healthy to push your boundaries. Go into situations that you're actually unsure of that you want. You don't even know if you're gonna like them.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie: And then you figure out, like, oh, I like this, but I didn't like that. And, like, that's okay. You don't have to, like every single part of an experience that you do.

I think it's just really important to push yourself out of your comfort zone a little bit. And, like, being safe, obviously.

And, like, not. Like,

not. And I think this is important, like, not going in if it's sexual, not going into, like, an ick mode. Like, if you feel gross, you're never gonna come. You're never gonna kind of, like, release and, like, be able to enjoy.

So obviously, if you're like, oh, I could Never go to an orgy because I don't want to see two dicks at one time or something like that. Right. Then, of course, like, don't go.

But, like, if you're like,

I might like that. But, like, I don't know, it kind of like, weirds me out. Like, maybe just like, push it a little bit. Push the boundaries. If you have an opportunity to go something like this, do it.

See if you like it. And if you don't, no problem. And if you do, great. You found something new about yourself.

Mel: Yeah, Well, I mean, I guess in this case you're lucky that it was a friend.

Suzie: Oh, totally.

Mel: That was safe.

Suzie: Yeah.

Mel: I. I'm wondering, though, like, how different the experience is. Like, you went as a single girl.

Suzie: Yes.

Mel: To a couple.

Suzie: Yes.

Mel: Because that's different. You're going,

you know, you're kind of relatively newly single and you're wanting to experience things like a lot of people do. Like. Like, I want to do different stuff. Like, I want to, you know,

but you're on your own. Whereas if you're in a couple,

what the difference is there and where the boundaries are there and like, how,

how much that keeps going. Right. Yeah. Because surely as a couple, I mean, I'm saying this. Surely. What am I saying is that if you go to an orgy as a couple,

I.

Well, you just explained Ashley's situation. Maybe you're going, because the woman, that's where she gets to have experiences other women, she doesn't do it outside of that environment. Maybe, maybe not.

Maybe the man equally the same thing.

But yeah, like, I mean, I guess they have some kind of rules or they understand what their levels of whatever are.

Suzie: I mean, that's a. That's a good question. I think, for if I, like, if, let's say, like, I was with someone and I was going to an orgy with a guy who I was seeing,

and we don't know what to expect because it's our first together.

I think it's so important to have conversations like that before you get there.

Of course.

Mel: You're okay with this or not okay with that.

Suzie: Exactly. Like, oh, like, you know, like, I'm. I'd love to experience another man.

How would you feel about that? And if he's like, no, I don't want to see you with another man, then you have to respect that. If you're going to be doing this together,

if this is your partner. But if this is just someone you're seeing,

then, yeah, you have to, like, reevaluate.

If you Actually, like, how much you like this person. And, like, do you know what I mean? So. But, yeah, absolutely, 100%. You should be like, oh, am I allowed to, like, make it with other girls?

Like, how do you feel about that? Like,

Like. But way before you actually come there, because you don't know. And maybe you'll change your mind once you're there. Maybe it'll actually be okay, and then you can figure that out at that time.

But you have to make sure you're okay with. Yeah, I mean, the basics, at least before you get there. Like, I'm not saying, like, any guy's gonna go and get pegged on the first orgy, but.

Mel: Yeah, that's a lot.

Suzie: It's a lot. It's a lot.

Mel: But it's a lot that you're watching that. Oh, well, that might happen to you. Whatever. I mean, I. To me, it seems like the obvious things that you. You might,

you know,

make out with another girl or have sex with a guy or whatever.

I like, why are you going if you don't want those things? That, to me, is, like, a little change.

But maybe that's just naive.

Suzie: Well, some people are very, like, voyeuristic, and they want to watch, but they don't want to do it themselves or they want to be watched. So let's say, like, a guy and a girl are just going to play with each other, and they just want to be watched.

Like, that's obviously a thing, too.

So let's say that's just the case. But you have to explain, like, you have to make sure that with your partner, you're like, hey, I'm not here to play with anyone else.

I just want to hang out with you and, like, have sex with you. But I expect that we're not gonna play with anyone else. Like, I just want to be watched or whatever that is.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie: And so you have to make sure that everyone's okay. Like, you guys are collectively okay with that and also that everyone else knows and you're being respectful to other people.

Like, if someone's trying to touch your girl and you're like, what the ****? But you have to be like, oh, no, sorry, we're not doing that. And then they should respect that, too.

Mel: We're not here for that.

Suzie: If you're in a traditional, nice, consenting orgy.

Mel: Yeah, yeah, yeah. I mean, it's a lot, Susie.

Suzie: It's a lot. Absolutely. It was a lot for me.

Mel: Well, this is the bit that's interesting to me and the question I have. So you Mentioned this is a very like older woman question, I think is that you said everyone had condoms and that's good.

Yes, good. We're not getting diseases.

Suzie: Absolutely.

Mel: But to me the biggest ick factor other than pretty much the whole thing. But sorry.

Suzie: But no, I mean, no, true is.

Mel: The like if somebody's made out and obviously there are bodily fluids exchanging.

Suzie: Absolutely. And you're kissing and sucking dicks, vaginas.

Mel: And dicks are going to licking people. Yeah. There are different bits going around and then you're then interacting with that person.

Bat kissing them or whatever it is.

Yeah, that's it.

Suzie: Yeah. So I mean that.

Mel: And what is that? And you just, just that's. I mean obviously that seems like a completely ridiculous question because this is an orgy where people are having sex. So they're going to be swapping fluids and interacting and you're going to have to get your ******* head around that.

But like if you're in a relationship, obviously your head is around that.

Suzie: Yes.

Mel: Because you know the person.

Suzie: Yes.

Mel: Even though if you think about it too much, it's, it's, it's, you know, sometimes not a good thing. But if you're with somebody, it's normal. Yeah, right.

Suzie: Yeah,

absolutely. It's like, I mean, so the one time that did cross my mind because I didn't really know what to. What I was going into and expect like, who knows the.

So when the, when the new girl who I like hadn't really met had come over to Ashley and I. Yeah. And she had just like, I,

I saw her,

she was playing with Mr. N, she was sucking his **** and she was also like with her like partner man with like another girl and a guy.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie: I think she was getting ****** at that point.

Mel: Excellent.

Suzie: Forget.

And so that's fine. And then she came over to us.

So I am making out with her and dealing with that.

And it is something that you have to be like,

you kind of have to get over.

Well if you want to do it.

Mel: You have to kind of in an orgy you kind of got.

Suzie: If you want to immerse yourself in the realistic ways that Norgi has done, you have to kind of just like get your head around it and be like, you know what?

This is okay. I'm gonna obviously like,

you know, brush my teeth after. I'm not like gross like, you know what I mean? Like, I don't know, like you have to like, you know, you know. Yeah. Like use mouthwash and I don't know.

Mel: What do you, you have to just.

Suzie: You Just have to get over the fact that that is the reality of.

Mel: What this is, obviously. Otherwise it's, it's like, you know, pointless. Like, why there.

Suzie: And you can choose not to kiss anyone either. I think for me, I'm like, I love kissing women. And so I was like, I'm gonna, I'm gonna have fun and like make sure I can kiss women and like, whatever.

And you have to just be okay that. To know that she's gonna be. Had just been sucking a **** or like whatever. Right. Like, so that's.

Mel: Right. Yeah.

Suzie: That's the reality of it, unfortunately. Unfortunately. But I, I get it, I get it.

Mel: That was my practical ick factor question. Yeah, I mean, I just. Yeah, I don't know.

Suzie: It's definitely a lot.

Mel: It's a lot. I.

Suzie: You know, I'm surprised you've never been to one, Mel.

Mel: What? Like, what the. Yeah, I mean, it's just.

Suzie: You could be the dom, the dominatrix at the orgy, not **** anyone, but just have your whip out if you see anyone, you know, having a bad.

Mel: Time, just be like, I could do that. To be fair, that would be what I see you be doing.

I'd be happy doing that. No,

I just. It just sounds like a lot to me. Like,

I understand that people, you know, like, you know, we've talked about so many things on the pod. Threesomes, foursomes, **** knows, unicorns, whatever the **** we're going to talk about.

Right.

Suzie: Yes.

Mel: But like, this is like,

like the extreme of like that. Yeah. However,

and that personally is not my thing,

which is fine. But I do really respect the fact that these people have like a community. They have a community or they have a safe party or whatever you want to call it.

Like a group of people who are all enjoying or into the same thing, which is entirely their choice,

and they have this kind of safe space to do it. I respect that.

I. I really do.

Suzie: And that everyone,

because it's the community and like everyone who's in the community is typically like very safe with their own body. So, like they're getting tested regularly, right?

Mel: Like, yeah, they're think so you would.

Suzie: Hope that they would like tell their partner, whoever that they have been tested positive for something and that they obviously need to be treated before they do anything and it's nothing is like a death sentence anymore, so it's.

Everything's fine. But just having that respect for other people and like knowing that either you're going to use a condom if you need to, or like a dental dam not that I've ever seen or used one of those.

Mel: That's a good question.

Suzie: Yeah, I don't know.

Mel: What would you do about that? Because you are technically should do that.

Suzie: You should do that. I've. To be honest, I've never seen one or used one in my entire life.

Like, they are the weirdest. Like, I don't even know how that would feel good. Or like anything with like you put this plastic, like ginormous condom on your ******. Yeah.

Mel: Like, like sort of cellophane.

Suzie: It's just like this. There's no way this can feel good.

But you know, obviously the lesbians got to use it and if you want to be safe or you know that you have a,

an STI and you have to be safe about that. Yeah,

but yeah, I have never, I've never used or seen one. But yeah, definitely, definitely using the condoms. I saw the condoms, so that was good. But yeah, I've never seen a dental dam.

Mel: But I'm sure also the fact that it was in somebody's home and they do it regularly,

kind of, they're very sympathetic or empathetic to the fact that anybody new coming in is going to be like,

whoa.

Suzie: Yeah. And I. There was one other guy who it was, he was his first orgy too, and he was with his girlfriend or whoever she was.

Mel: But not her first orgy.

Suzie: But not her first orgy.

Mel: Fair enough.

Suzie: Yeah.

Mel: Okay.

Suzie: Um.

Yeah, it was very interesting. It was very interesting. It was like,

it was funny meeting these people and then like the next time you see them, like they're ******* someone else and then like, you know, you're kind of playing with them and then you're like, but I literally just met you.

So like, you literally are going into this situation, you're going into an orgy and you just have to wrap your brain around I have to immerse myself or I'm never gonna do anything.

Mel: Yeah,

but how does that make you feel about the person? Because like,

if you think like even a one night stand, you've. You've had a conversation with somebody totally evening, you've had a connection. Maybe the word is connection.

Suzie: Yeah.

Mel: Like any kind of situation where you sleep with somebody once or do something with somebody once or multiple people once.

Suzie: Right.

Mel: You've had a connection beforehand.

Suzie: Right.

Mel: Like you've met, you've gone out for dinner, you've partied, you're all drunk together, whatever the hell it is. Yeah, right. And this is just like, like you.

Suzie: I'm probably never gonna see these people again.

Mel: No.

Suzie: Besides Mr. And Ashley. Yeah, obviously.

Mel: It's just like completely. Yeah, it, it's, it's. Yeah, it's, it's a little.

Suzie: Well, that's why I started. That's why I started with. With Ashley because I'm like. Because I knew her, I knew she's fine. I knew she's safe. I knew she wanted to hook up with me because Mr.

N told me and I was like, okay, so like I'm happy to hook up with Ashley because she's hot and I'm like, I know I'm going to be safe with her.

I'm turned on. And like it's a great starter. So like that's why I like if you're like, if you are going into something like this, making sure you.

Unless you don't. Unless you totally want to be the stranger of the party. But like it's really nice to know at least one person or like go with that one person and be able to like play with each other or just go and like talk about it afterwards.

Right. With someone who like was there because it's funny and like it's exciting.

It's a crazy experience for especially someone who's never been or who's like not used to being in the community. Like it's.

Mel: Yeah, it's.

Suzie: It's wild because these people do it all the time. These people are.

Mel: That's what's my next.

Suzie: Yeah.

Mel: So they. What do you mean by all the time? Like every week?

Suzie: No, I. Well, maybe. I mean I, I didn't fully talk to all of them, but like Mr. And hosts these I think once a month.

Mel: Okay. So.

Suzie: Or about that. So if he's hosting them, the same people are coming. I'm assuming if they can come, they're going to come.

Mel: Right.

Suzie: And like I was one of the only new ones there.

Mel: Right.

Suzie: So they're all coming there to do that. I don't know if. Well, so that was actually interesting. Those are actually one girl who is Mr. One of Mr. Ends. Lovers had so funny.

Mel: He has, he has a girlfriend. I know lovers. And he needs to go to an orgy.

Suzie: Yes, of course. He's a host. Orgy.

Mel: Yeah. Fair enough. Yeah.

Suzie: For everyone to just get together. Fair enough. As a nice little get together.

Mel: Doing good work.

Suzie: And so she was actually. Because she was. She's from out of town,

so she was like, oh yeah. I'm like. Because she was staying with this friend. So she's like, oh, I'm going to.

She's like, I. And I was like, oh, like how long are you here for? She's like, oh, I'm just here to Monday. Tomorrow I'm going to another party. Which I'm like, does that mean she's going to another play party or she's going to a regular party while she's here?

Mel: Oh,

interesting. Yeah, I know.

So then what are the rules? So these are my two other key questions. I make sure I don't forget them. Is that what happens, like, after the party? What if people want to see each other outside of those boundaries?

Is that like what happens then if.

Suzie: You happen to get their number? I mean, like, I guess you have.

Mel: To have agreed that.

Suzie: Yeah. And if you're coming in with a partner.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie: And you also, like, if you're like, oh, like, maybe let's like do this again just like us three. Like, if I was really into that couple who I was playing with,

and then I'd be like, let's do this again with us three.

And they were into it too. I would give them my number for sure.

Mel: Yeah. Okay, that makes sense.

Suzie: But for me, I'm like, I want to experience other things outside of this. Although they were hot and fun.

I'm just like, yeah, you know, it needs to be,

to be different for.

Mel: Me, a different half.

Suzie: I'm just ready for, for other new things.

Mel: Other new things.

Suzie: You know, like, I want, like, if I were ever to do that again, like at a sex club.

Mel: Yes, Sex club.

Suzie: I think I'm like, you know, I want new experiences with new couples.

Mel: Okay, that makes sense. So this,

this is, this is a comment more than a question, love. That is because we get a lot of comments about this and you generally see a lot of these comments on social media about particularly men talking about women's body count.

Right?

Suzie: Yes. And such a big eye roll.

Mel: Yeah. And it is, it is a thing. Unfortunately, that's since the dawn of time.

A lot of men have a problem with that. Right, Right. So, so, and so we get a lot of comments about that,

about, you know, ugh, women with high body counts and whatever. But to me, I just don't understand it. I'm like, well, this community, you all are enjoying a very,

like, heightened level of sexual pleasure and crossing boundaries and being very open.

So you're all dating the same kind of people, really, who are very open minded. Right. And are likely to have higher body counts. Is that a fair thing?

Suzie: That's a fair thing to say.

Mel: So and that's fine. But so why on earth would you make the comment like, don't date.

Right. Like if you are some straight lace, really kind of, you know, conservative person.

Suzie: Yeah.

Mel: You're not going to date a girl like Susie who goes to orgies.

Suzie: If a man even says the words body count to me, I'm fudgeing out of there. Yeah. I have stopped counting how many people I've slept with years ago.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie: Because it's not important. It's as long as you're being safe.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie: Then it doesn't matter. Of course. Like as long as you're using condoms, getting tested regularly, why would. And why would the amount of people you're sleeping with matter?

Mel: But it's not. Yeah, I agree. But it's not important to you and the people you date. Which. Which makes sense. So that's who you date.

Suzie: Yes.

Mel: So the people making this comment about body.

Suzie: Well, the men who are making this comment are not sleeping with anyone anyways.

Mel: Of course not. But it's like why are you. It's like, why don't you just stick to your thing? If your thing dating women or men, whichever, you know, side of that you're on and both that don't have high body counts, that are not into experiences that are not as open minded as Ms.

Susie here, that's completely fine. But go off and do that with whoever does that and then there's obviously a huge amount of people in the middle and then there's more people.

Is it fair to say you're more on the other side?

Suzie: I would be happy to be on the other side of that.

Mel: But you're dating or experiencing or whatever you want to call it. Yeah. People who are not on this kind of worried about body count. Absolutely not. And so I don't understand why,

you know,

people keep going on about it. It's like stop talking about it. Just don't date those women.

Suzie: Get off of their little like just forget about it. High horse about like women shouldn't be ******* a lot of guys because it's like you want a woman who knows her body.

The men who don't want an experienced woman don't know how to have sex with a woman properly. And that's just the truth of it. Every single man who I've great love experiences, sex experiences are men who have had a great amount of sexual experience with other women and who are super open to what a woman wants.

And like how we work down there because we are complicated.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie: Let's just be honest.

The vulvas are very complicated. The ******** is in a different place every time. Like. Yeah. It's just a It's a certain. It's a certain level of experience really is what I'm looking for anyways.

Mel: So I think that's fine. I. I mean, that's.

Everyone should just do their thing and mind their own business as far as I'm concerned. Absolutely. That's what I'm saying is if you have a problem with somebody who's more experienced or whatever, or you don't.

This horrible term, you don't want somebody with high body count,

then don't date those kind of people.

Suzie: No, it truly doesn't make sense to me.

Mel: You wouldn't date. So the point is. What's the point of the comment is the reason I'm saying because men love.

Suzie: To put down women, but it seems to be ****** men. Obviously not all men.

Mel: ****** men look prevalent on women.

Suzie: Yeah, it's ridiculous.

Mel: Stop doing it. Stop making this comment and just go and date. I don't know, whoever it is that you think is appropriate.

Suzie: The fact that you're even asking, like it's important to you. Yeah, unless. There's no unless. Like it should not be even be a question anymore. Like women.

Mel: Very naive.

Suzie: Women still are tight. Yeah, I hate the word tight, but like, it, it contracts and it expands.

Mel: Expand, expands.

Suzie: It contracts and expands.

Mel: Well, it doesn't affect. It's only.

Suzie: Yes, of course. It's a whole thing. It's a whole myth. It's not important. But I'm just saying it shows your uneducated level of men who are asking.

Mel: About this that everyone is entitled to their life, their experiences, to do, to navigate life in the way they want and doing the experiences, having the experiences they want.

So you do your thing and they do their thing. Yes. And that's why,

although I will not be participating.

Participating in an orgy.

Very happy for you if that's what you wanted to do.

Suzie: Thank you.

Mel: That's perfectly fine.

Suzie: I had fun.

Mel: Great.

Suzie: And I'm looking forward to my sex club experience. And I'll share that one on the pod.

Mel: That'll be the next episode.

Suzie: I know I'm going to have to figure out if I'm going to go with a man or a woman, but I guess we'll see.

Mel: Yeah, that's. That's going to be something to figure out.

Suzie: Maybe I'll bring you.

Mel: Definitely. No. No, definitely not.

Suzie: Well,

I loved, love, love to know if our audience has ever been in an orgy or something similar. Maybe you have a sex club membership and you want to invite me.

I'd be happy to go.

Mel: Yeah, that's an idea or anything else.

Suzie: We'D love to know. You can go to sharemytruth.com or you can send us an email or voicemail. Or you can share my Truth Pod on any of our socials. You can DM us, comment on all our videos.

We love you so much and we can't wait to chat with you soon.

Mel: Until next time.

Suzie: Until next time.

Mel: Thanks so much for listening. Please rate and review this podcast and follow us on social at sharingmytruth Pod and leave us a voicemail on our website@sharingmytruth.com to share your stories and experiences with us.

We'll see you next time.

Suzie: Bye bye. Three, two, one.

Mel: Yeah.

Suzie: Sam.